6/15/2009
Keep your eyes open for God at work
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
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2.) Pastoral Counseling,
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5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com
6/14/2009
Scary statistics
Some upsetting statistics from my Seminary Evangelism class. I do not recall the exact source but I believe these numbers are from Barna Research Group and the Southern Baptist Convention :
USA total population increased 11% in last ten years; church membership declined 9.5%
Church attendance is declining 10% over the past 7 years
Evangelical Church failed to gain additional 2% of population in the past 50 years.
No county in America has a greater percentage of churched people since a decade ago.
Half of all churches in America last year did not add one new member via conversion.
Churches are closing their doors....
1900 -27 churches for every 10,000
1950- 17 to 10,000
2004- 11 for every 10,000
We lose 72 churches per week or 10.27 per day
Gain 24 churches a week, 3.4 a day
Net loss of 48 week and 6.85/ day
USA is the Largest post-Christian nation.
It is the 3rd largest unchurched nation.
USA Lead world in all crime categories
North America is only continent where Christianity is not growing, in fact other Countries have sent Christian missionaries to us, when we once sent Christian missionaries to them!
13th (some ranked us even as high as 4th) highest receptor of missions nation
Fastest growing affiliation is “not religious”
(Canada + US) is only 3 t o5% truly evangelical
Bill Easum-estimates that in American churches 60% median age of 60 or higher
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
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6/13/2009
personality or character
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
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2.) Pastoral Counseling,
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5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com
6/04/2009
sin is not a disease
To say that Jesus is the cure for sin is also limited and devaluing the actual thing that Christ did do.
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
I help people set realistically higher expectations, achieve more results and a better lifestyle. I offer many approaches to this, a few being:
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2.) Pastoral Counseling,
3) Blogging,
4.) Public Speaking, and
5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com
5/29/2009
The Question
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I help people set realistically higher expectations, achieve more results and a better lifestyle. I offer many approaches to this, a few being:
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5/28/2009
REFUEL your relationship with God
And I am enjoying this help and practical book.
I love how Doug writes the same way that he speaks. His personality is the same even in his writing, not a lot of authors can (or even try) to express the same sense of humor in writing that they use in their real verbal life.
So far the book has been very helpful. It has confirmed a lot of thinks I have been thinking about, doing, and teaching about myself personally. I hope Doug does not mind me spilling the beans, but the approach to connecting with God is really simple. First we must STOP, then BE QUIET, and MAKE A CONNECTION WITH GOD.
There are a lot of things in our lives that we live that keep us busy, a lot of times we use this busyness as an excuse for not finding time for God. The issue is not our busyness but it is easy to use that as the excuse really our priorities are flawed or we are not managing our time properly to truly live out our priorities.
So Doug tells us to STOP...even for just a few minuets or seconds through-out the day and recognizing God as Lord. Put Him first, seek Him, pray, and read the Word of God....
but the first step of STOPPING can be difficult because of the lives that we live. Stopping does not mean giving God the left overs, we must STOP because if we really want to make a connection with God we must surrender all of our attention to Him. He uses an illustration of getting gas. We cannot fill our car up with gas while it is still moving or even running....we have to STOP the car before we can connect to the pump.
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
I help people set realistically higher expectations, achieve more results and a better lifestyle. I offer many approaches to this, a few being:
1.) Professional Coaching,
2.) Pastoral Counseling,
3) Blogging,
4.) Public Speaking, and
5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com
5/25/2009
Servanthood Evangelism
Servanthood Evangelism is intentionally sharing Christ by modeling
The great ideas for servant evangelism are numerous!
Check out this website for some ideas!
Here are some thoughts:
Walk the streets of the community offering to change burnt out light bulbs for free and share the light of Christ
Change the batteries of fire alarms because of the love of Christ
pass out free water at a sporting event
Do a gas buy down...for a few hours at a gas station offer to pay the station .25 for every gallon pumped in 2 hours. The gas station sells the gas 25 cents cheaper, the customers are happy and you get a chance to talk to the customers about why you are doing this!
Bake cookies for visitors and visit them. The principle is do not just invite the community to come to your church, instead bring the church and love of Christ to them!
Community-driven: cook food for or mow grass for a particular community or a particular set of families, no strings attached.
Do not participate in a "church sports league," do participate in a community/open/secular league.
People will ask "why are you doing this?"
This is the essence of servant evangelism and this is the opportunity to share the Gospel and God's love!
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
I help people set realistically higher expectations, achieve more results and a better lifestyle. I offer many approaches to this, a few being:
1.) Professional Coaching,
2.) Pastoral Counseling,
3) Blogging,
4.) Public Speaking, and
5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com
5/11/2009
An area lacking
During most of my life I have played in a band. Not always the same band but continually in a group nonetheless.
I recorded an album of myself for fun last year.
Now I occasionally write songs but this area of my life is lacking and not as active as it has been in the past and I miss that.
It is not only my own music playing and ability but music in general...
I have 30GBs of music on my computer but much of it is forgotten.
It is great music (old and new) but I just haven't got the time to just listen to music like I used to.
It is strange how all this occurring, I love music and it has always been a part of my life but right not it is not as big of my life as usual. I miss that...
so here is to a random day off of me playing guitar and forgetting about the rest of my life...it was fun
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
I help people set realistically higher expectations, achieve more results and a better lifestyle. I offer many approaches to this, a few being:
1.) Professional Coaching,
2.) Pastoral Counseling,
3) Blogging,
4.) Public Speaking, and
5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com
5/09/2009
Superman: The Blanks
The Scrubs Theme Song by The Blanks (Aka "Ted's Band")
Played at the end of the last Scrubs episode this week :(
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
I help people set realistically higher expectations, achieve more results and a better lifestyle. I offer many approaches to this, a few being:
1.) Professional Coaching,
2.) Pastoral Counseling,
3) Blogging,
4.) Public Speaking, and
5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com
4/26/2009
The body of Christ: We are a team!
Another problem in American church today is “Ministry misplacement” which is the problem of 20% of the members doing 80% of the work in ministry. I pray our church does not fall into this trend.
Other reasons for meeting once a week for a worship service are:
1. Bible Commands it: “Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful… Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” (Hebrews 10:23, 25)
2. Learn and grow together Proverbs 27;17, “Iron sharpens iron, So one man sharpens another.”
3. A place for regular Confession. God cannot have anything to do with sin. Sin blocks our spiritual eyes and ears from understanding God.
4. Opportunities to serve/ use gifts that God has given us
5. Serves purposes of God/Bible: Worship, Fellowship, Evangelism, Discipleship, Ministry!
6. Helps us follow God’s Will together as we share together
7. Leads to discipleship
The Importance of discipleship and mentoring:
A disciple is a learner and follower. The first disciples followed Jesus Christ. Discipleship is the intentional training of disciples, with accountability, on the basis of loving relationships. All Christians are disciples of Christ. We are to become complete and competent followers of Him.
I am super excited about the vision for our church! Soon we will be launching a church 0wide discipleship program. The idea is to get everyone in a one-on-one intentional relationship for the glory of God with a mentor. The relationship is about multiplication: both to increase and deepen your own faiths respectively but also for the purposes of prayer, evangelism, and service together. By focusing our time on building into each other and serving the community, not only will your faith grow but also the church will expand.
Thank you for visiting. My name is Alex Dolin. I am a Christian Life Coach, a Professor of Biblical Studies, a future professionally licensed counselor and an ordained minister.
I help people set realistically higher expectations, achieve more results and a better lifestyle. I offer many approaches to this, a few being:
1.) Professional Coaching,
2.) Pastoral Counseling,
3) Blogging,
4.) Public Speaking, and
5.) Preaching at scheduled events. Find me at AlexanderDolin.com